the poop happens world we live in thread 2XXX

[Sol]

If he wants to live by himself so he can be depressed so badly, he should buy his own damn house. It sounds like you already give him plenty of space. He doesn't have to hang out with you guys or even like you just because you're roommates, but to ask you to move out and to lie and say your friend wanted you to as well, and say he would even ask the homeowner (the person who allowed him to stay despite the fact that their relationship had ended and he doesn't pay rent) to leave if he didn't own the place, is EXTREMELY obtrusive and obnoxious. The fact that he's upset is not your problem, and your friend is not his keeper. If he's not even considering counseling, then I doubt he's going to change anytime soon. Hopefully he moves out. :/

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